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I'm sitting here at my computer thinking back at the events that unfolded today. Getty photographer BunnyEatsMan and I have been prepping for this photoshoot for weeks. Each night after Kyan went to bed, we talked about what to shoot, recipe research, color coordination, clothes, aprons, textures, linens and all the other minute and seemingly unimportant (to me) but actually very important (to her) details. It was a very steep learning curve for me, but, because I trust her and love a good challenge, especially if I'm working hard for something I believe in, I was all in.
I was instructed to get my food and desserts organized, kitchen de-cluttered and cleaned, my hair and make-up ready by noon.
My dear friend Selam did some last minute shopping for me while I got ready and brought her kids over and helped kept the children busy, fed and entertained. BunnyEatsMan showed up and promptly waved her magic. I started pulling foods out from the fridge and pantry, laying out my mise-en-place, placing them in an aesthetically pleasing manner as the camera lens focused on generally my hands cooking. Continue to prep naturally, but do it slower than you normally would, yes, slower, hold that raspberry right there, ok, resume, yes, you can keep doing what you're doing, stop right there, ok, yes, keep going ... this seemed simple enough for me to follow, right? I can do this.
My confidence was very short-lived. I quickly realized that was the easy part. Within minutes, she started moving the camera up from my hands to my face and that was where the fun began. OK now, keep chopping and look up at me and smile, ok, no, keep your head down and only move your eyes up to me, no, no don't glare at me, just look at me softly, more feminine, pull that glare back 50%, yes yes, that's it, softer, softer, relax your forehead, shoulders down, relax your cheeks, take a deep breath... exhale... and... smile, no, don't smile like a crazy woman, just smile a half smile, no, no, too much teeth, ahh, yes, yes, ok, better, now don't stare at me so fiercely, pull that glare back again....
I cannot stop giggling writing about this now. Of course I wasn't giggling then. I was dead serious trying to get it right as BunnyEatsMan coached me through the first whole hour on how to smile at the camera properly. That confident, yet gentle half smile you see celebrities wear on their faces when they walk down the red carpet. Yes, that smile is a practiced one. Normal human beings don't naturally smile like that.
Working in the kitchen for a photo shoot feels very much like rush hour in the kitchen, except you take quick breaks to change your outfits and aprons to match whatever you're cooking, tidy up your hair and check your make-up. I don't think I went to the toilet once during our 6 hour photoshoot or remembered to drink a glass of water except during a quick break for late lunch where we sat down to eat the Shakshuka I made. (Recipe here!)
In between cleaning and prepping for the next dessert to shoot, BunnyEatsMan would go off and find the kids to shoot. She had a real knack for getting the kids to do whatever she wanted. She made it really interesting, secretive and fun for them. Kyan was as usual a natural around my kitchen and cooperative during the shoot, attentive to instructions and easy to get him to do things, especially when it involved using our KitchenAid mixer. Sometimes, he'll say Can I not look at the camera and just keep doing what I'm doing? He walked into the kitchen one time and said You changed your clothes again. I like that apron on you Mommy. I love my little man.
Towards the end, I was slowly running out of half-smiles and BunnyEatsMan can tell from my pictures. We covered a lot in the short, but, long six hours. I hadn't realized how exhausted I was until I jumped into the shower with Kyan and the fatigue set in. All I wanted to do was to put my feet up and just stare into space.
It was a fun, interesting and enlightening experience today. I learned that we all see ourselves differently. What I think I look like most of the time is often not the same as what others see you most of the time. What looks good to me in real life, may not always look good on camera. This fascinating experience has been an absolute eye-opener for me. I cannot wait to see how the rest of the pictures turned out.
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The weekend is here again. What are you going to be doing? We are hosting friends coming from out-of-town and looking forward to having some adult conversations, fine foods and laughs. Getting the house in order, working on my blog and caring for Kyan has been a challenge for me - some days I just feel like I'm not cutting it. But I made it through this week and am really excited about a few posts I'm working on for next week so I tell myself all the challenges in finding my balance is worth it.
Here's a few links I found around the internet that stirred my wonder and made my smile.
Looking at these treehouses around the world made me want one for Kyan and one for me!
I've been hunting around for kitchen linens that are simple and made with natural fibres and finally discovered these, which are also the most reasonably priced, good-looking ones around (finally!). And they are having a summer sale!
Really digging this cute trend.
Here's even more reasons to wear sunscreen.
The alternative to a camp trailer - A fabulous school bus home!
Now that i'm starting to take more pictures of the food we make around here, I find myself looking for ways to compose a better picture. Here's a great blog article on food photography.
This is such a meaningful project I want to be a part of - The School of Life.
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Have a wonderful weekend everyone!
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